Cyberpsychologist Monica Whitty identifies flirting signals associated with:
- gestures;
- glance;
- intonation;
- distance between people;
- touches;
- appearance;
- smell.
How to Flirt Properly? 6 Top Tips
Now let’s talk about how to learn how to flirt with a girl so that she can recognize your sympathy, and, at the same time, not accidentally offend her (which, by the way, is also crucial).
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Don’t be afraid to start flirting!
The worst tactic in flirting is to take it too seriously and start by making lists of reasons in your head why it will end in complete failure.
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Compliment her
Make sure that your compliment is necessarily sincere — that’s the crucial condition.
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Make her laugh
How exactly you make a girl laugh depends on your personality and your sense of humor. Therefore, experiment with different (not vulgar and not offensive!) jokes, playfully tease her (but only carefully so as not to accidentally hurt her feelings), smile often, and even laugh.
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Initiate light touch
Touching a girl for the first time can be a rather dangerous step, and if it’s wrong or premature, it risks causing you to end your communication. However, if it’s delicate and appropriate, it can speed up the heartbeat of the girl you like.
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Keep the conversation going
Flirting is not only about winking and smiling but also about being able to maintain an interesting conversation. Don’t expect that we will give you ready-made phrases for flirting: it’s hard to conduct a fascinating conversation with the help of blanks and stamps.
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Move on to the next stage
If you’ve done everything right, then she’s probably waiting for you to ask for her number. And that’s exactly what you should do if you’re interested in further communication with this girl.
How to Flirt with a Girl Online
Approaching and talking to a cute girl is cool, but today it’s not the only way to flirt. You can also do it on dating services or social networks.
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Don’t be predictable
Ask her questions that will make her think about the answer. Grab her attention and hold it. But just don’t go too far and, instead of an imposing guy, don’t accidentally turn into a tactless person.
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Never be anyone but yourself
The temptation can be huge, but don’t fall for it and don’t try to seem like someone you aren’t. When flirting online, you still most likely expect to meet this girl one day in real life. But then all your embellishments are likely to play a disservice.
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Don’t forget the three-line rule
Flirting is something light and casual, which means that long messages will be inappropriate here.
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Don’t delay the stage of flirting
If you feel that you’re truly interested in this girl and see a reciprocal interest on her part, don’t be afraid to move on to the next stage.
